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jan4  

Desperate with money

Hi I'm in deperate need of help from anybody.  After a miscarriage at the begining of this year my patner left me and he left me with all the debt to.  I need to pay of mortgage areas and bills that I cannot afford.  I cannot sell the house as the property market in our area will not allow it.  I have tried to sell for several months now but to no avail.  I need money and my job does not cover what I need as I only work part time.

I'm looking to raise some money pay pay off outstanding bills.  I cannot get a loan as I don't earn enough to do this and it would only make matters worse.  Can anyone suggest something to help me with my situation.  I'm getting deprest from it and my doctors keep prescibing anti depresants which I really don't want.  If only I could get some help.

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HollyPaws  

HollyPaws

My name is Holly i'm 80% Colly and 20% German Shepard. I live with my family in Dorset, England. I was given to my mum as a pressent one christmas from my dad, that's why my mum called me Holly. I have one blue eye and one brown eye. And am mainly black and white in color.I love playing with my ball, going for walks, putting my head out of the car window, having my belly rubbed, hugs and kisses, my family and people, and i love trying to eat the hoover. I have a great personality. Unfortunately i have cushings diesease which is where i produce excessive amounts of cortisol. This can have harmful effects on other organs and on the ability of the body to regulate itself. I am on medication for this everyday and have to have blood tests every 3-6 months which is all very expensive and my family are struggling to afford it and need your help. Financially things are really bad for my family at the moment. If my family can not get any financial help with my medication then i may lose them. I love my family VERY much and do not want to leave them, so please  if you are able to help and would like to then please make a donation through PayPal. To do this please leave me a message and i will write back to you with my email address which you will need. Please help.Thank you.
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Pussy  

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Note: This aidpage was started as a comment on "Tanya Hide Sexy girl, low self esteem...."

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karlsberg  

karlsberg

right,my name is karl, im 27 years old and ive had nothing but bad luck all my life, my brother was murdered, my ex conned me into signing my house over to her, i have credit card bills she ran up, i dont see my son as she wont let me, my mum has cancer, i lost my job and noone will hire me, my car has broken down, i have no money other than a crappy 120 pound every 2 weeks, was my birthday last sunday so yet another great year to look forward to, lets see what can go wrong this year. does anyone fancy giving me a break and help me get my life back on track just so i can start a buisness as im a keen gardener and it would at least give me a reason to wake up in the morning, if i do get a buisness up and running and it goes well i will pay every penny back, thanks for reading. i apologise if im late answering messages as i dont have my own computer, i have to use my friends

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anne15  

30 yr old female going on 60! please help me take the pressure of

Hi, I am asking anybody to help me,although I find this difficult-i do have pride..but I am desperate and it feels awful having to ask.I'm not sure this works and if I will get a an answer but I am desperate to help my mother live in a safer place,in peace,and with debts cleared.My mum is one of the abused children-irish survivors.She was brought up in a coonvent in galway from the age of 3 to 15 where she suffered horifically-like many did.

I am trying to do something for her as my dad has just passed away after being wrongly diagnosed and we are still suffering but cant get on with our lives,or to greave as everything else is pilling on top of us.

she is in debt,and i cannot get a job because of an illness.

I dont know if anything will come back of this but if someone out there can reach me ill be eternally greatful.

thankyou..sherrry

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elle  

hi;-)

"Hi my name is Elizabeth and i am looking for help, i am feeling realy deppressed and i am having many money troubles everthing seems to be mixed up at the moment and i cant seem to find a way out of this dark tunnel i am in".

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elle  

elle

Hi my name is elle and i am on here for freinship pluss if i can help any one with there worries ill tell u and id also like help if anyone reads my letter with my worries its realy nice to be able to cum on a website where you can oppen up and get advise propply so anyways wen i read anyones letters and i may no a place or a number that will help i will let you know bye for now x.....
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Tanya Hide  

Tanya Hide Sexy girl, low self esteem....

I don't know if anyone out there will read this, or if they do I doubt anyone will care but i am letting out this cry of help in the hope that i might get lucky and somebody will understand what im going through...
I am a young single mother and bringing up my son alone, at the same time i am doing a home study degree to try and improve our prospects.  This sounds rediculous but the reason I am doing the course at home is that since i breastfed my son I have lost my breasts completely, I am prone to panic attacks ever since and it really gets me down so i don't go out very much. I'm a total exhibitionist at heart but now I feel as if i have lost all feminity and part of my personality went along with my breasts.  I am aware that there are many girls out there going through the same thing but a lot of them want larger breasts so they can model or go into porn - I just want to feel like me again.  I know this all seems so petty but I ask guys out there a question - if when you had a child your 'manhood' shrunk by 75% I'm sure you would feel just as distraught as i do about my chest - only this is more visible to the outside world.  My son and I live off very little money and I do feel so selfish for wanting to spend so much money on myself - but I feel like this operation would help both of us as no child needs a depressed mother.  I have had councilling and was approved for the operation on the NHS but my local authority doesn't have the funds for another 6 years, I know I can't wait that long... If anybody out there can help me, I would be forever in their debt - I am willing to find many ways of thanking you - you just let me know what it would take and Im sure we can come to some sort of agreement.  People reading this - please do not ridicule or berate me - I am genuinely serious about how much this gets me down and I'm not just trying to get a free tit job so I can prance around like some airhead - I am an intelligent hardworking girl who is just stuck in a rut and desperate to feel like herself again, I do a lot of charity work in my spare time and am working hard to fix my financial future - just right now Im rather stuck.  If you are still reading this and haven't judged me too harshly, then thank-you, even if you can't help xx
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Ant  

Ant

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becks  

becks

hi im a 30 year old single mum ov 3. Iv been single for 3 years now bringing up my children im finding life really hard at the moment trying 2 make ends meet !! and they dont !! i just dont no what else 2 do i have tryed being a working girl but i hated it it made me feel cheap and nasty but i just want 2 be able 2 buy my kids stuff xx   

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Bosco  

Loans, rent and bills

Hi,

I am in a deep difficulty. I have loans to pay upto £1500, and no one can  help me. I also have my rent to pay which is £475 per month. I don't know how i will manage this, my current job does not pay me enough and it takes so much time to look for a new and better job. I also have my flight ticket to pay off which is £400, because my visa is expiring and i have to leave the country. I came here because i thought i would earn some money, but now i am in deep financial problem. If anyone can help me with any amount i would be so greatful.

 

Thank you,

 

Bosco

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Bosco  

Comment: Hi, i am badly in need of...

Note: This aidpage was started as a comment on "free money to help pay bills"

Hi, i am badly in need of money at the moment, i have 2 loans to pay back which sums upto £ 1500 and i also have rent to pay off, which i don't know how i will manage. Other expenses are my flight ticket to go back home, has to be paid off since my visa is expiring. If you could help me with any amount it would be great and i will be greatful to you.
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MichaelD  

I need glasses

I've been out of work for a long time due to ill health.   I am feeling much better now and really want to get back into work. The only problem is I cannot see very well without glasses.  I broke mine a few weeks ago and can't afford to get new ones.  I can get some help from the DSS, but it's not enough.  I still have to find £96 and it's almost impossible to raise this amount on benefits.  It's a catch 22 situation.  I can't get glasses unless I have money coming in and I can't get a job until I get new glasses.  Can anyone help me please?  I'm really struggling to make ends meet.

Thank you

Michael

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burg  

burg

hello my name is jackie im 40 years old with one son who is 18. i have recently been diagnosed with lupas and a bone disaease and am finding it impossible to lead a normal life. my son cares for me spending all his time in the house.

i have family in ireland and which to relocate so that they could care for me and most importantly that my son can have a normal life.

i cannot work and my son cant work because he cares for me. it affects him very much although he does not admit it i can tell he wants to have fun and lead a normal life that he deserves.

i need money for a deposit and a downpayment for my son to get an apartment, and moving cost to relocate to ireland with my family.

this is alot im asking for and i would be so greatful for any donation, if one person could just send a pound or anythin smaller out of the kindness of there hearts i would be so thankful. ive put our adress at the bottom,please help my son, lifes to short to waste and he deserves so much better. thank you very much.

79 shakespeare road

cheltenham gl51 7hr

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maria7  

Maria

Hi, my name is Maria and i am a single parent of one beautiful daughter. The past few years have been absolutely dreadful and i have had nothing but bad luck. I have lost my home and had to go into sheltered housing which was full of drug addicts and drunks and it really did my daughter no good at all. I have found accomadation now but i cannot afford to pay the rent so i will probably be homeles again soon. As well as that i have got divorced, lost my job because of the housing problem and i see no way out of this awful mess. If i could only get a job i would not ask for help, but i cannot find any work and now i face eviction from my home. I feel so in despair and i know that there are other people much worse off than myself. If anyone can guide me in the right direction and possibly tell me how to go about rebuiding my life and how to get financial help i would be forever in their debt. I would help someone in my potition if i had the means and if i ever get out of this rut, i will prove it for sure. PLEASE PLEASE help me..

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Pollyanna  

Hello, I am in the unfortunate position of not even having my bus fare to work tomorrow.

Hello,

I am in the unfortunate position of not even having my bus fare money to go to work tomorrow. My car has stopped working and is now at the scrapyard. Due to unexpected bills I am now £245 overdrawn at the bank and I don't get paid until the end of this month. I have a full time job, and have tried to get a loan, but I have been unsuccessful. I just don't know what to do. I don't have any family who are in a position to help me. Is there anyone who is willing to take a risk and grant me a personal loan, which I promise to pay back please? I will indeed return the kindness to someone else in need when I am on my feet.

Thanking you so very much for you're kind consideration.

Jacqueline  

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willy,  

WILLY'S HOME PAGE

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getridofdebt  

getridofdebt

i am a honest and hard-working mum and i do what i can to help others when i can.
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eluned87  

eluned87

im a 20 yr old mother of two and i currently live with my partner and father of my children in a tiny little flat. However we have to move out of the flat this week as the horrendous damp and mould is making my baby girl ill and causing her to have breathing difficulties. The problem is the council wont give us a house as there are just none available and we can't afford to rent any properties in our area.We can't get a mortgage either as despite my partner working incredibly hard as a decorator (despite nearly dying last year and still suffering awful pain at times). We are going to have to move in with my parents and brother and sister in their little flat until we find somewhere but there just isnt room.

We desperatley need money to buy a house, just a small house, something we can call home. I know its a hugely big ask and to be honest i don't think anyone will be willing to help us but i just think there is no harm in asking. My partner works incredibly hard for very little money and it seems like some people get money for nothing.It just seems so unfair. All i want is the best for my children. If anybody can help PLEASE PLEASE do we will be eternally grateful, even just a little bit of money could help us on our way to buying a house or pay for a few months rent. Thankyou very much for reading this, all my love x

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born to suffer  

born to suffer

I am an adult learner seeeking assistance to go back to university Last year  In 2006 I succesfully completed my first year as  an undergraduate  studying  Hons Social Studies  . When  I was about to start my second year I was told to pay £6000 for my fees instead of £1200.I took a gap year hoping to raise enough money to pay but its all in vain .I tried applying to charities that I thought may be willing to fund my education but I was not succesful. I cant apply for a student  loan because I am not eligible.Please ,I am pleading to  individuals who may help me with any amount of money.I AM DESPERATE ,I want to go back this september to proceed with my second year but its only possible if I get help from you.

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